Being a self-enterpriser can, at times (and for some periods more often than not), be a lonely business. At a job, there’s usually others who are along side you. As a self-propelled dude/dudette, we’re not relying on an alarm clock or a boss to tell us what to do next and when to do it. It’s great if you can find a wing-man, confidant, or other buddy to share your vision with. However, it’s a rare find.
My wife is often that “buddy” for me; yet she’s got her own visions (that I attempt to be a good “buddy” regarding). I’ve found that forming strategic bonds with others who are as passionate about their visions as I am mine can be a huge assist.
For example, Ray Pierce is A1-Passionate about videography. So much so, that he gladly elected to support my project, Funny Says What?! We can carry on about filming and production, entertainment value, and the right way to deliver the intended experience to viewers. It’s great. We both get to discuss our talents and discoveries – without boring the other (I’m skilled at lulling my wife to sleep). I get to feel like he’s my wing-man; he thinks I’m his wing-man. Yet we’re both the super-stars of our own visions.
However, we both have other tasks to take care of and other people in our lives. As FSW gains performers and an audience, I’ll have more and more individuals I can share with. In the meantime, I find that reading over a description of my projects often gets me back on the right track, should I veer off into a lonely stupor. Try it. And if you still need an extra boost of visionary energy, I’ll get Ray’s number to you.
–Dave C
